July has a funny way of making you take stock. Maybe it’s the heat, or maybe it’s the realization that we’re halfway through the year and still haven’t touched that gym membership you confidently purchased in January.
But July is a good time to ask a bigger question than whether we’ve kept our New Year’s resolutions.Are we actually building a life we enjoy?
Like it or not, how we handle our money plays a starring role in that story.
Here’s the uncomfortable truth: you can spend decades chasing financial security and still miss out on the life part entirely. You know the type — always waiting. Waiting until the house is paid off, until retirement, until the market settles down, until the kids move out and until everything finally feels “right.” Unfortunately, life has a habit of moving the finish line just as you think you’re about to cross it.
On the other end of the spectrum is the YOLO crowd. They’re financing vacations, buying things they don’t need, and assuring themselves that Future Them will figure it out. Future Them, by the way, is considering changing their name and moving without leaving a forwarding address.
The sweet spot lies somewhere in the middle.
It’s not about squeezing every dollar so tightly that George Washington starts asking for oxygen, and it’s not about treating every paycheck like you just won the lottery. It’s about aligning your money with your life — intentionally.
That might mean taking the family vacation now instead of waiting for “someday.” It might mean driving the reliable car for a few more years so you can retire with choices instead of worries. Or it might mean finally investing because you realize future-you deserves the same care you give everyone else.
A rich life isn’t measured only by big, Instagram-worthy moments. More often, it’s found in the ordinary ones: backyard barbecues, Tuesday night dinners with friends, taking your grandkids for ice cream or spending a Saturday morning doing absolutely nothing with the people you love.
Those moments don’t require reckless spending, but they do require something many people overlook: financial breathing room.
That’s where planning comes in. Not the boring, fall-asleep-before-page-three kind, but the kind that actually gives you permission to enjoy your money without constantly wondering whether you’re making a mistake.
Think of money as a tool — not a scoreboard. If your entire financial life is built around accumulating more simply because “more” sounds impressive, congratulations — you’ve won a game that nobody remembers after you’re gone.
The goal isn’t to have the largest account balance in the cemetery. It’s to use your resources to create opportunities, memories, security and maybe even a few stories your grandkids will laugh about someday.
July is the perfect mid-year checkpoint. The calendar keeps flipping whether we’re paying attention or not. So, ask yourself one simple question: Is your money helping you build a life — or just a larger bank statement?
If the answer needs a little work, that’s okay. You don’t need a complete financial overhaul. A few intentional changes today can create a much richer tomorrow.
After all, the best measure of wealth isn’t simply how much you leave behind. It’s how well you lived while you were here.
Michelle Kuehner, a Chartered Financial Consultant and Master Certified Estate Planner, is the president of Personal Money Planning LLC, a Wichita Falls retirement planning and investment management firm.
This article originally appeared on Abilene Reporter-News: Are you living or just financially existing? | Opinion
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